The Australian government is really putting in a lot of resources targetting domestic violence.
- Police are better resourced and, hopefully, are also experiencing changes in workforce culture as well. One often hear stories about police ignoring domestic incidences or being insensitive when questioning the victim which makes it difficult for victims to speak about DV.
- DV support services are getting increase funding from what I hear.
- The campaign about stopping DV is also recognising that there are male victims too (see http://www.oneinthree.com.au/overview/) -- apparently, 1 in 3 DV victims is male.
- There is also recognition that victims from Culturally and Linguistically Diverse (CALD) backgrounds may be unable to speak up for themselves for a variety of reasons (e.g., high dependency on the breadwinner, being unable to understand how to seek help, unable to speak to anyone due to language difficulties, some degree of tolerance within the cultural context). Thus, if you are able to access an interpreter, please try to find an interpreter of the same gender. In my experience, if the gender is not matched and if the issue of DV is not spoken about, the interpreter may not interpret accurately or the victim may be guarded.
- Remember that DV does not just mean physical violence, it can also take other forms such as verbal, psychological etc. If you are a victim, do not think that things will get better. Just seek advice and help. If there are children in your household, remember that they are also victims and it is unhealthy for children to live in such volatile situations too. Seek help so that you can all better function as a family unit.
Regardless of where you work or where you encounter DV, please remember that DV is not an issue between the perpetrator and the victim. There are also others in the equation such as children, neighbours et cetera. Importantly, if we do not stop the DV in this generation and not role model what is appropriate and acceptable, it will be difficult for subsequent generations to do so. Let's all play a part -- to help the ones directly affected so that those indirectly affected (from a distance or otherwise) can look towards the future.
Stats from http://www.domesticviolence.com.au/pages/domestic-violence-statistics.php to demonstrate the prevalence and severity of violence against women:
- On average at least one woman a week is killed by a partner or former partner in Australia.1
- One in three Australian women has experienced physical violence since the age of 15.2
- One in five Australian women has experienced sexual violence.2
- One in four Australian women has experienced physical or sexual violence by an intimate partner.2
- One in four Australian women has experienced emotional abuse by a current or former partner.3
- Women are at least three times more likely than men to experience violence from an intimate partner.4
- Women are five times more likely than men to require medical
attention or hospitalisation as a result of intimate partner violence,
and five times more likely to report fearing for their lives.5
- Of those women who experience violence, more than half have children in their care.6
- Violence against women is not limited to the home or intimate
relationships. Every year in Australia over 300,000 women experience
violence - often sexual violence - from someone other than a partner.7
- Eight out of ten women aged 18 to 24 were harassed on the street in the past year.8
- Young women (18-24 years) experience significantly higher rates of physical and sexual violence than women in older age groups.9
- There is growing evidence that women with disabilities are more likely to experience violence.10
- Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander women experience both far
higher rates and more severe forms of violence compared to other women.11
- Intimate partner violence contributes to more death, disability and
illness in women aged 15 to 44 than any other preventable risk factor.13
- Domestic or family violence against women is the single largest driver of homelessness for women14, a common factor in child protection notifications15 and results in a police call-out on average once every two minutes across the country.16
- The combined health, administration and social welfare costs of violence against women have been estimated to be $21.7 billion a year, with projections suggesting that if no further action is taken to prevent violence against women, costs will accumulate to $323.4 billion over a thirty-year period from 2014-15 to 2044-45. 17
For more details, please visit Australia's ABC for more information - http://www.abc.net.au/news/2016-04-06/fact-file-domestic-violence-statistics/7147938
If you need help, please contact your local police who can link you with the right services. Not everyone needs the same level of help. Some may need a refuge, others may have relatives who can help. Search online for resources wherever you are...